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Hi my name is Dr. Marian C Fritzemeier and I'm an education and child development specialist. I've accumulated many years speaking, writing, consulting and teaching both in the classroom and for parenting audiences. I believe the parenting process can be a fantastic and overwhelmingly fun journey with the right plan in mind. Need some help with that plan? Then you've come to the right place.

Friday, March 14, 2014

Book Review: The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study

Dr. Marian C. Fritzemeier, Ed.D. © 2013
Author, Speaker, Educator
Twenty five years ago, the general population was told that children and teens adjust to divorce within five years after their parent's divorce. The controversial, New York Times Bestselling book, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study, came along in 2000 and tells a different story. A story that is difficult to process and challenges American society's beliefs about divorce.
The Study
Wallerstein studied children of divorce since 1971, when she began observing some 131 children of divorced families in affluent Marin County, California. The original "children of divorce" study was funded by the Zellerbach Family Fund. Subsequent studies were done with the same children that ultimately led to The 25 Year Landmark Study.

The Book
The five-part, twenty-two chapter book presents a long-term perspective of children of divorce after they reach adulthood. "...when children of divorce become adults, they are badly frightened that their relationships will fail, just like the most important relationship in their parents' lives failed," (p. xiii).

College Students' Responses
I used an article based on this book in my college Child Growth & Development course for small group discussions. The topic stirs up intense emotions alongside powerful opinions based on students' personal experiences. The vast majority of students from divorced families agree with the authors' long-lasting effects of divorce.

Interesting Chapters
Some interesting chapters include: Growing Up Is Harder; The Wages of Violence; Our Failure to Intervene; Undoing the Past; and Growing Up Lonely. Since divorce is so prevalent in our society, this is a well researched and documented book on the effects of divorce that should be read by anyone touched by divorce.

Book Information: The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: The 25 Year Landmark Study by Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia M. Lewis, & Sandra Blakeslee, New York: Hyperion, 2000. Available from Amazon.com hardcover $17.56; paperback $11.62; audio cassette $5.48; and Kindle $9.99. 

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